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Longtime couples therapist Alter stops short of promising women who ask
their husbands to read his guide that "he'll read it, and like it,
and get it, and change, and then things'll get a lot better in your marriage,"
knowing from his 22 years as a counselor that his intended audience-boneheaded
husbands-won't change if they don't want to, but those who do could do
much worse than to take Alter's advice. Alter holds husbands accountable
for many problems that plague marriages and relates to his male clients
in a tough manner that sometimes angers them. The most useful guidance
is a suggested "Move" at the end of each chapter, an overture
husbands can make to improve at everything from listening to their wives,
appreciating their wives' anger and understanding their own sexuality
(read: "Please touch it."). Though some "Moves" are
less helpful than others (he simply recommends husbands with addictions
to alcohol, drugs, or pornography "break all your consuming relationships
with substances and behaviors"), most are small, yet meaningful,
and worth giving a shot before looking for a divorce attorney.
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DESCRIPTION: For anyone who thought happily-ever-after only occurred in
fairy tales, who thought their so-so marriage was the best they could
expect, IT'S (MOSTLY) HIS FAULT is required reading. Drawing
on over 30 years of experience as a psychotherapist and marriage counselor,
Robert Alter's central, controversial argument is that the man is primarily
responsible for the marital problems. Here he reveals the win-win rewards
for both men and women when husbands learn to take more active roles in
their relationships. In straightforward language even the most resistant
couples will embrace, IT'S (MOSTLY) HIS FAULT shows men how they
can: 1) Be great husbands 2) Stop the nagging - Have more sex 3) And win
adoring wives. It gives women: 1) Less reason to criticize their husbands
2) Partners they actually want to have sex with 3) And the supportive
and loving husbands they always wanted!
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Fans of the National Geographic Channel's The Dog Whisperer with
Cesar Millan will be grateful for Cesar's Way, an accessible
guide to help new and current dog owners better understand the needs
of their beloved pets. If you are not yet a fan, try to catch a couple
of episodes of the remarkable show--you will be amazed, impressed, and
motivated to create a healthier, more fulfilling relationship with your
dog. In Cesar's Way, Cesar explains that dogs are not complicated,
and despite what various owners think--not human. They rely on three
key elements in their lives: exercise, discipline, and affection (in
that order). "Problem dogs" can be attributed to "problem
owners," owners who don't understand and misinterpret their dog's
behavior. Cesar's Way is really a training program for dog owners, with
chapters devoted to understanding the "power of the pack,"
taking responsibility for "how we screw up our dogs," and
learning how to manage aggression. Cesar's book (a must-have for new
and old dog owners) moves beyond basic obedience school techniques,
and teaches owners how to change unwanted behavior by better understanding
their "best friends."
--Daphne Durham
Book
Description
“I rehabilitate dogs. I train people.” —Cesar Millan
There
are at least 68 million dogs in America, and their owners lavish billions
of dollars on them every year. So why do so many pampered pets have
problems? In this definitive and accessible guide, Cesar Millan—star
of National Geographic Channel’s hit show Dog Whisperer with
Cesar Millan—reveals what dogs truly need to live a happy
and fulfilled life.
From
his appearances on The Oprah Winfrey Show to his roster of celebrity
clients to his reality television series, Cesar Millan is America’s
most sought-after dog-behavior expert. But Cesar is not a trainer in
the traditional sense—his expertise lies in his unique ability
to comprehend dog psychology. Tracing his own amazing journey from a
clay-walled farm in Mexico to the celebrity palaces of Los Angeles,
Cesar recounts how he learned what makes dogs tick. In Cesar’s
Way, he shares this wisdom, laying the groundwork for you to have stronger,
more satisfying relationships with your canine companions.
Cesar’s
formula for a contented and balanced dog seems impossibly simple: exercise,
discipline, and affection, in that order. Taking readers through the
basics of dog psychology and behavior, Cesar shares the inside details
of some of his most fascinating cases, using them to illustrate how
common behavior issues develop and, more important, how they can be
corrected.
Whether
you’re having issues with your dog or just want to make a good
bond even stronger, this book will give you a deeper appreciation of
how your dog sees the world, and it will help make your relationship
with your beloved pet a richer and more rewarding one.
Learn what goes on inside your dog’s mind and develop a positive,
fulfilling relationship with your best friend
In
Cesar’s Way, Cesar Millan—nationally recognized
dog expert and star of National Geographic Channel’s hit show
Dog Whisperer with Cesar Millan—helps you see the world
through the eyes of your dog so you can finally eliminate problem behaviors.
You’ll learn:
•
What your dog really needs may not be what you’re giving him
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Why a dog’s natural pack instincts are the key to your happy relationship
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How to relate to your dog on a canine level
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There are no “problem breeds,” just problem owners
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Why every dog needs a job
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How to choose a dog who’s right for you and your family
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The difference between discipline and punishment
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And much more!
Filled
with fascinating anecdotes about Cesar’s longtime clients, and
including forewords by the president of the International Association
of Canine Professionals and Jada Pinkett Smith, this is the only book
you’ll need to forge a new, more rewarding connection with your
four-legged companion.
Also available at Rylander as a Random
House AudioBook
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From
Publishers Weekly
Joyce Carol Oates's gripping third suspense novel under her Kelly pseudonym
(after 2005's The Stolen Heart) explores twisted love. Shy, insecure
teenager Annemarie Straube becomes the object of intense scrutiny when
she's discovered half-clothed and drugged, wandering through the woods.
She and her aunt, Drewe Hildebrand, were apparently abducted by fundamentalist
Christians who vandalized the older woman's Hudson River estate. Under
police questioning, Annemarie has only fragmentary memories of the attack
and of being force-fed a powder later determined to be crystal meth.
Through flashbacks, Kelly portrays the odd relationship between Annemarie
and Drewe and the bizarre assortment of cutting-edge artists who were
part of their circle and who eventually emerge as the main suspects
in the kidnapping. Since the heroine is the very definition of the proverbial
unreliable narrator, piecing together subtle psychological clues to
discover the truth will challenge most readers. Fans of Minette Walters
and Ruth Rendell will be well pleased. (May)
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From
Booklist
Presumably, Joyce Carol Oates uses pseudonyms to distinguish her suspense
novels from her literary works, although her identity is always revealed
when she writes as Rosamond Smith or Lauren Kelly. And while this is
designated as a novel of suspense, it is an archetypal Oatesian tale
narrated by a lonely and depressed young woman of straitened circumstances
and hidden strengths uncomfortable with her sexuality and enthralled
by an unsavory mentor. Drewe Hildebrand--chic, wealthy, and reckless--runs
an artists' colony not far from the old Hudson River town of Newburgh
that impresses New York City sophisticates and scandalizes the conservative
locals. Drewe has taken charge of her destitute niece, Annemarie, renaming
her Marta and attempting to transform this shy and balky teen into a
sexy sidekick, seemingly with deviant intent. Certainly, there is menace
in the air when Drewe takes up with a sculptor who creates such ghoulish
works as a bust of Drewe covered in her own blood. After a near-riot
breaks out at the opening of an exhibit of his grotesque creations,
Drewe disappears and Marta is beaten and forced to consume a nearly
lethal dose of crystal meth. Ultimately, the suspense is more intellectual
than visceral in this fleet-footed, culturally astute, and teasingly
ambiguous tale about sexual power, women and body image, class divisions,
contemporary art and the rejection of beauty, and the nexus of the sacred
and the profane. Oates by any other name is still Oates: smart, canny,
haunted, and compelling.
Donna Seaman
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From
School Library Journal
PreSchool-Grade 2–Reading this story is like having a romp with
the funniest dog in town. As the book opens, two lines of text (Good morning,
Fergus!/Want to go out?) frame the irrepressible face of a furry white
terrier, black button eyes glistening with excitement. Subsequent pages
feature the pups adventures chasing cats and motorbikes, scratching and
being scratched, playing in the dirt, begging for meatballs, and riding
in the car. No matter what the animal does, his masters refrain is…you
guessed it. Readers see everything from a terrier-sized perspective, and
they rarely see anyone but Fergus. When he is trampling his owner to request
a walk, they catch just a glimpse of a human face. The motorcyclists face
is so covered with gear as to be generic. The more intimate portraits
here are of things of interest to Fergus–spaghetti and meatballs,
for example, or the whipped cream that he likes on his kibble. Shannons
artwork is like an overstuffed sofa: colorful, homey, and bouncy. A riotous
book to unleash on all readers–even those who own cats.
–Susan Weitz, formerly at Spencer-Van Etten School District,
Spencer, NY
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From Booklist
K-Gr. 2. Fergus is a West Highland terrier, sort of an antihero to Rosemary
Well's doggie, McDuff. He goes wild when he sees a cat, won't come when
he's called, eats the daisies, and puddles in the wrong places. Of course,
he's not entirely to blame; his unseen master is the sort who tells
him not to beg, then slips him a tidbit, and puts whipped cream in his
food bowl after the original offering gets only a disdainful sniff.
This book is all about the impressive, oversize visuals--pictures that
show the adorable doggie in full canine-caper mode: leaping, chasing,
digging, not rolling over on command. And the expressions on Fergus'
face perfectly mirror those of many pets who have the innocent look
down pat: "Who me?" However, the best audience for this will
be children old enough (or experienced enough with dogs) to catch the
humor. Fergus has made cameo appearances in other Shannon books. Come
to think of it, maybe he's not so much a counterpoint to McDuff as he
is Shannon's David in fur.
Ilene Cooper
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From
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Grade 9 Up-When 15-year-old Craig Gilner is accepted by a prestigious
Manhattan high school, the pressure becomes taxing, and he finds himself
battling depression. Partying and drugs don't help. As his illness intensifies,
he is aided by his supportive family and perceptive therapist. A prescription
for Zoloft improves things, until Craig decides that he is better and
stops taking it. In a revitalized state of depression, he calls a suicide-prevention
hotline and then checks into a hospital, where the only space available
is in the adult psychiatric wing. There, he receives the help he needs,
discovers his hidden artistic talents, and connects with the quirky patients
who have plenty of problems of their own, including Noelle, a girl his
own age. Craig's well-paced narrative, carefully and insightfully detailing
his confusing slide and his desperate efforts to get well, is filled with
humor and pathos. His thoughts reveal a sensitive teen unsure about sex,
friendships, himself, and his future. An almost unbelievable amount of
self-realization, including his first two romantic encounters, occurs
in the whirlwind five-day hospital stay. However, the book ends on a note
of hope, despite Craig's unwise anticipation of a relationship with Noelle.
This novel will appeal to readers drawn to Brent Runyon's The Burn Journals
(Knopf, 2004), which is another powerful but more extreme look at a likable
teen returning from the brink of suicide.
Diane P. Tuccillo, City of Mesa Library, AZ
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From Booklist
*Starred Review* Gr. 9-12. When Craig Gilner gets into Manhattan's exclusive
Executive Pre-Professional High School, it's the culmination of a year
of intense focus and grinding hard work. Now he has to actually attend
the school with other equally high-performing students. Oops. And so
the unraveling begins, with a depressed Craig spending more time smoking
dope and throwing up than studying. Although medication helps his depression,
he decides to stop taking it. Soon after, he makes another decision:
to commit suicide. A call to a suicide hotline gets him into a psychiatric
hospital, where he is finally able to face his demons. Readers must
suspend their disbelief big time for this to work. Because the teen
psych ward is undergoing renovations, Craig is put in with adults, which
provides the narrative with an eccentric cast of characters rather than
just similarly screwed-up teens. And in his five days in the hospital,
Craig manages to cure his eating disorder, find a girlfriend, realize
he wants to be an artist, and solve many of his co-residents' problems,
including locating Egyptian music for his roommate, who won't get out
of bed. What could he do if he wasn't depressed! But what's terrific
about the book is Craig's voice--intimate, real, funny, ironic, and
one kids will come closer to hear. Many readers will be familiar with
the drugs, the sexual experimentation, the language, and, yes, the depression--or
they'll know someone who is. This book offers hope in a package that
readers will find enticing, and that's the gift it offers.
Ilene Cooper
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From
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New York Times writer Drape (The Race for the Triple Crown) illuminates
a little-known figure in the history of American sports: Jimmy Winkfield,
the last black jockey to win the Kentucky Derby. Like that of more well-known
black performers Paul Robeson and Josephine Baker, Winkfield's success
was a mixed blessing: racism and injustice ultimately force Winkfield
to flee his native country for Russia, where he witnesses the revolution
and lands in Paris with other Russians. The youngest of 17 children in
a Kentucky sharecropping family, Winkfield's passion for horses sets in
early, and his slight stature bolsters his desire to be a jockey, "where
blacks and whites rubbed shoulders without cross words or a stinging backhand
to upset the harmony."Black jockeys such as "the legendary slave
jockey Simon ... who helped drive General Andrew Jackson from the racing
game" and Isaac Murphy, who was so successful, he built himself a
$10,000 house before the turn of the 20th century. While Drape's attempts
at novel-esque narrative occasionally read cliché, this well-researched
biography of Jimmy Winkfield and the larger chapter of America his life
highlights is a valuable and entertaining read. 16 page b&w photo
insert.
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From Booklist
The prospects for a small black man born in the American South in 1882
were grim. That Jimmy Winkfield, the seventeenth child of a sharecropper,
grew from such barren ground to become the toast of three continents
is nearly incredible. Winkfield's gift was a unique ability to understand
and communicate with Thoroughbred racehorses. He parlayed that gift
into worldwide success as a jockey, winning consecutive runnings of
the Kentucky Derby in 1901 and 1902 before fleeing America's racism
for even greater fame in Europe and in Russia. Along the way, he married
three times (twice to white women), took two mistresses, fathered five
children, made and lost fortunes, and was a firsthand witness to many
of the events that shaped the twentieth century. Drape's exhaustive
research allows him to tell Winkfield's story in detail and in context.
While fully appreciative of Winkfield's accomplishments as a jockey,
a horseman, and a man, Drape doesn't gloss over the jockey's many transgressions
against those he loved, and that is what makes this biography not just
a tribute but a life.
Dennis Dodge
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